{"id":57,"date":"2017-09-03T15:30:07","date_gmt":"2017-09-03T15:30:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.icomputinglabs.in\/blog\/?p=57"},"modified":"2017-10-05T05:09:00","modified_gmt":"2017-10-05T05:09:00","slug":"overcome-fear-public-speaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.icomputinglabs.in\/blog\/overcome-fear-public-speaking\/","title":{"rendered":"Have you overcome your fear of public speaking?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAccording to most studies, people\u2019s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Death is number two.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you\u2019re better off in the casket than delivering the eulogy.\u201d \u2013 Jerry Seinfeld.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although this is the most common form of fear , it can take its toll on your personal and professional life. However , with little patience and persistence you can overcome it. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, if you can be one of the few to overcome your fear, this is a brilliant skill for your resume and you\u2019ll be able to accelerate more quickly in your career, as well as be more confident in your personal life. \u00a0Here are few techniques to help you overcome your fear:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Prepare and Practice Enormously<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: The importance of practicing and preparing the speech cannot be replaced. You have to practice over and over again. You can practice in front of mirror and also in front of family and friends for feedback. The speech should be prepared so well that you could answer any possible question thrown at you.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Trust yourself<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Usually you are on stage because people value your expertise and knowledge &#8211; or at the very least, whoever has put you there has confidence in your capability. Use this thought to try and relax- people aren\u2019t there to give you a hard time. In fact, most people are probably just grateful it\u2019s you speaking on stage and not them!<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Memorizing your speech is not a good idea<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not confuse rehearsal with memorization. \u00a0You should not memorize your entire presentation, but rather your opening, key points, and conclusion. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With memorizing, mental blocks become inevitable. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The better you understand what you&#8217;re talking about \u2014 and the more you care about the topic \u2014 the less likely you&#8217;ll make a mistake or get off track. And if you do get lost, you&#8217;ll be able to recover quickly. Take some time to consider what questions the audience may ask and have your responses ready.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Be prepared for technology breaking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> : Never rely solely on technology when going for a public speaking. Suddenly your laptop might crash or Internet will go for a toss. \u00a0If you\u2019re using PowerPoint software and the computer or projector isn\u2019t working, it can be handy to have printed out the presentation for the audience (and yourself if you need it). Similarly, you should import your presentation offline so that if the internet doesn\u2019t work, you can still present without getting much bothered.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is , you cannot keep on running away from your fear. At some point in life you will have to build up the courage to face and overcome them.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAccording to most studies, people\u2019s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you\u2019re better off in the casket than delivering the eulogy.\u201d \u2013 Jerry Seinfeld. 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